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Being Patient

Second graders build self-management by learning to be patient — stopping, breathing, waiting, and trying again when something is hard — instead of giving up or getting upset.

Grade 2CASEL: Self-Management30 minutes1 class periodCASEL SELExplicit teaching4 StandardsCASEL
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Lesson at a Glance

Everything you need before the bell rings

Learning Objectives

Students will be able to…

  • ✓Explain patience.
  • ✓Stay calm.
  • ✓Order the steps.
  • ✓Try again.
Essential Question

Sometimes things are hard and you feel like giving up! Being patient means staying calm and trying again. How can you be patient when something is tricky?

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Interactive Task
Put in Order · Interactive

Order the Being-Patient Steps

Project this and have children put the being-patient steps in order — from stopping to asking for help.

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The Lesson · SEL Flow (Check-In · Learn · Practice · Apply · Reflect)

30 minutes, five moves

Tap any phase to open the teacher moves and student actions.

1

Check-In — Don’t Give Up

4 min

Something’s hard and you want to give up — how do you stay patient?

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Do a check-in.
  • Pose a tricky task.
  • Be caring.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Check in.
  • Reflect.
  • Get ready.
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Learn — Being Patient

8 min

Children learn.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Explain stop and breathe.
  • Explain waiting.
  • Explain trying again.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Learn stop.
  • Learn wait.
  • Learn try.
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Practice — Order the Steps

8 min

Children practice.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Send children to Order the Being-Patient Steps.
  • Put them in order.
  • Say each one.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Order them.
  • Say them.
  • Explain.
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Apply — Being Patient

6 min

Children apply.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Try a tricky task patiently.
  • Take a deep breath.
  • Ask for help if stuck.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Try it.
  • Breathe.
  • Ask.
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Reflect — Reflect

4 min

Children close.

👩‍🏫 Teacher Moves

  • Name a patient step.
  • Say why it helps.
  • Complete the exit ticket.

🎒 Student Actions

  • Name one.
  • Say why.
  • Complete the exit ticket.
Standards Alignment

Built to the standards you report on

Aligned to the CASEL 5 Social & Emotional Learning Competencies.

CASEL
Self-Management

Show patience and self-control.

CASEL
Self-Management

Manage frustration.

CASEL
Self-Management

Persevere at a task.

CASEL
Self-Awareness

Notice frustration.

Differentiation

One lesson, every learner

Multilingual Learners

ELL / EMERGING READERS
  • Step picture cards.
  • Sentence frame: “First I ___, then ___.”
  • Practice breathing.

Support & Access

IEP / 504
  • Start with breathe and try again.
  • Order two at a time.
  • Use pictures.

Stretch & Extend

GIFTED / EARLY FINISHERS
  • Explain giving your best.
  • Practice a hard task.
  • Cheer a friend on.
Materials

What to gather

  • 📽️Screen / board
  • 🌬️A breathing poster
  • 💻Order the Being-Patient Steps
  • 🧩A tricky puzzle
  • 🖍️Crayons
  • 🎫Exit-ticket slips
Vocabulary

Key terms — hover for a quick definition

patientstaying calm and waitingpatiencethe skill of staying calmcalmpeaceful and steadybreatheto take in air slowlywaitto give it timetry againto have another gofrustratedupset it’s hardhelpsupport from others
Evaluate

Exit Ticket

Preview the three formative checks. Tap “Sample answer” to see what mastery looks like — hide them before you print for students.

QUESTION 1
What is a good FIRST step when something is hard?
Stop and notice you feel frustrated.
QUESTION 2
What can you do to calm down and be patient?
Take a slow, deep breath.
QUESTION 3
What should you do if you’re still stuck?
Ask for help.

Reflect: be patient.

Have children practice the being-patient steps the next time something feels hard. A printable patience sheet is in the SEL library.

Study · Flashcards

Study the key terms

Tap a card to flip it, then rate whether you knew it. Built from this lesson’s vocabulary.

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Practice · Quiz

Check your understanding

A quick self-check with instant feedback, drawn from this lesson’s key terms.

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Practice · Worksheet

Printable worksheet

A print-and-go review sheet with a built-in answer key. Tap “Show answer key” to reveal answers, or print the clean version for students.

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Date: ____________

Part A · Write the word that matches each meaning

Word bank: breathe, calm, frustrated, help, patience, patient, try again, wait
  1. peaceful and steady
  2. the skill of staying calm
  3. support from others
  4. upset it’s hard
  5. staying calm and waiting
  6. to have another go
  7. to give it time
  8. to take in air slowly

Part B · Show what you learned

  1. What is a good FIRST step when something is hard?
  2. What can you do to calm down and be patient?
  3. What should you do if you’re still stuck?
Answer key — Part A: 1) calm · 2) patience · 3) help · 4) frustrated · 5) patient · 6) try again · 7) wait · 8) breathe
Part B: 1) Stop and notice you feel frustrated. 2) Take a slow, deep breath. 3) Ask for help.